• Toomas Erik Anijärv

Not A Tutorial How To Enjoy Your Life But That Morning Coffee Though

You have no idea how to reach utopia, me neither. Appreciating a morning coffee is my way of reaching the closest state to perfection.

Say "thanks" to yourself (or whatever God you believe in)

I guess you feel like you're not satisfied with your life right now. Maybe you even feel depressed. You have some hopes and dreams in life which have set your direction towards something because your current situation isn't where you always want to stay, am I right? That's normal. Or is it? Is it possible to be totally satisfied with your current situation and still be hoping for a better future? Yes. You need to reset your dreams. The dream of enjoying the progress not the outcome. The same old bold saying "enjoy the ride, not the destination."


How to stay satisfied with your current situation and still wish for more? It's like a paradox. If you wish for more then you aren't completely satisfied. Utopia should be a state where you don't want anything more, everything is already perfect. For me, utopia seems miserable. You should always want something more. You need to want problems in your life because solving them is satisfying. Remember school? Math might have been a real pain in the ass but when you got the right answers then you felt damn good, right? What's the point checking that clock every 5 minutes waiting for the class to be over when you can try to solve these mathematical issues in your workbook and get multiple tiny orgasms before the final huge orgasm of school bell ringing. Maybe I should mention orgasm equals satisfaction in my amazing English vocabulary.


I repeat - you need to enjoy your "journey", fuck that nine-to-five work if don't get any pleasure from it. Quit it and do what you love. Even if it means earning small money. If you hate your job and finally buy that beach house then you will be miserable because you get that satisfaction only once. However, if you love your everyday job, you get them orgasms every fucking day. And I'm still not talking about screwing your co-workers..


"If you hate your job and finally buy that beach house then you will be miserable because you get that satisfaction only once. However, if you love your everyday job, you get them orgasms every fucking day."

Ha, I'm not sure if I'm playing my cards right. I study in university and have two startups. I still somehow feel unsatisfied because I want to get my degree and get my startup up and running and therefore go to US, Mexico or Australia, whatever. It's bullshit I know it. I don't find happiness there. I know I need to enjoy the current state. I need to enjoy every stupid mistake I make in the business world, enjoy every day I hustle at school. We all need to enjoy the way we live our everyday lives - starting from that black morning coffee with honey and ending with closing the curtains of a cozy bedroom. Embrace the present, you're going to die tomorrow.

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